admin The search for the “one” is nothing new, men all over the world are out there looking for the woman who ticks all the boxes and can claim the elusive title, and the world isn’t lacking lists of things to look for in the “one”. However even after finding someone who ticks all the boxes the relationship is still often short and un-fulfilling, I suggest that is because men spend so much time looking for the right qualities they become oblivious to all the wrong qualities these women have. So here are the top 5 signs she’s NOT the one.
1. She has A LOT of male friends – Don’t get me wrong women and men can be friends, but if she is constantly surrounded by a large group of guys that she spends a lot of time hanging out with then you can’t really be shocked when you find out she sleeping with them, just saying.
2. She is expensive – In today’s modern world of “equality” the cost of a relationship is split 50/50 right? Well we would all like to think so but the truth is more often then not men find themselves a bit more out of pocket when in a relationship, it is to be expected. However if you find your entire paycheck disappearing on your girlfriend every week and she is still looking for more then it is a worrying sign, after all being in a relationship shouldn’t cost you your financial security.
3. Contrasting religious beliefs – Two people do not need to have the exact same religious beliefs to make a relationship work, however if two people both have very strong opinions in regards to religion and those opinions directly oppose each other it will bring a lot of stress into a relationship. After all how many atheists want to sit through a full catholic mass every Christmas?
4. She has cheated before – If she has cheated before then she will probably cheat again. If she has cheated then she is not the one.
5. The sex isn’t good – It may seem shallow to say but its true, if the sex isn’t good how long will you both stay faithful? Finding someone with the EXACT same libido and sexual taste as yourself may not always be realistic but you need someone close. If she’s a twice a day girl and your a once a week guy then its only a matter of time before things go bad.