admin General consensus amongst doctors is that most people think about sex at least every 60 seconds. However, the way in which you manage these thoughts is up to you. Most women have been conditioned in to suppressing these thoughts. Unfortunately this is rather unhealthy as it can lead to a dampening of sexual desire within a relationship. Women who want to release their sexual inhibitions and open up to better sex lives need to stop constricting these thoughts.
So, what are you thinking about right now? The best answer to this question would be sex, especially when considering the nature of this article. Honestly, do you allow yourself to be filled with desire on a regular basis or do you shove those feelings aside in favour of “more important” thoughts.
Women who manage to maintain passion in their sex lives think about sex all of the time. There is a constant stream of desire coming in, whether it be seeing Taylor Lautner on tv or reading about men in uniforms on the newspaper.
Sexual desire starts from within and is expressed outwardly afterwards. You need to learn what turns you on so that you can transition this knowledge over to your bedroom. By injecting sexual thought in to your daily routine your are laying the foundations of more sexual fulfilment. Ever hear that you get more of what you focus on? If you are not entirely comfortable about letting your mind roam then you will never entirely let go of your sexual inhibitions.
A great way to start this process is by attaining a sexual totem or a symbol of some sort, whether it be a painting, figurine, erotic drawing or a poster. The object needs to be something which you associate with sex and which would lead you to think about sex whenever you see it. It does not have to be sexual in its own nature as you give it meaning within your own consciousness.
Place your symbol somewhere within view inside of your living environment where you spend much of your time as you want to be able to see it frequently. Try avoiding choosing anything embarrassing it should be a source of pride for you.
The process also works in the opposite way. You may find that there are symbols in you home which make you suppress your sexual desires. Its something which you most likely were given as a child often symbolising innocence. Look around your home and see if there are items there that condemn sexual expression and remove them from you view.