Every theory in this world that is relevant to Sexual behavior revolves around understanding the complex nature of women. The extremities to measure their libido have led many authors to get the opportunity to conceptualize it in writing and attract uncountable readers of the world. The ancient book “Kama Sutra”, which is often considered as theological description of sex, has given a logical characterization of different types of women. It has authenticated its definition depending on various factors including the sexual desires and their seductiveness to reach the sensational climax depending on the structural difference of their sexual organs. This authentication axiomatically proves the fact that every woman has a different body along with different sensational spots to feel the ultimate sexual climax. This complex sensation of most of the women regarding sex sometimes avoids them to achieve orgasm with their partner. Unlike men, whose vital sexual organ and seducing spot is externally concentrated in the penis, women need more intense emotional foreplay along with their external seducing spots.
Women have more concealed parts in their whole that can be stimulated to achieve the ultimate sexual climax. Unlike men, who can excite themselves to feel the sensation easily and that can even satiate their sexual desire, the practice commonly defined as ” masturbation” is seen to be historically uncommon amongst women. This can however, be the perceptional reason why women can’t even themselves perfectly recite their partner about their most stimulating spots. Therefore, their natural capability to achieve orgasm remains a mystery for both the partners.
Today, the techniques of masturbation are more emphasized on women. Although like men for whom it’s the most common practice of testing one’s adolescence starting right from the teenage, it is not commonly practice amongst women.
However it can be said that the common myths that regarded women masturbation as an unhealthy practice has been perished and today it is more commonly accepted by most of the women. The anatomical complexity of women’s orgasmic spots differentiates the masturbation techniques in women from men. It can merely start from caressing the back to insertion of finger in side the vagina to reach orgasm.
Along with physical stimulation like clitoral stimulation, where the clitoris is rubbed in a rhythmic motion, finger penetration, masturbation amongst women also need a perfect seducing sensational ambience that can reach her to the heights of sexual bliss and ultimately end by achieving the orgasm. The feeling of extreme privacy or oneness in case of partner is most important. The course of technique and perfectly secured feeling should be more intense to make her oblivious of the external surroundings. Today, apart from manual stimulation, a more advanced form to bring more ecstasy in the stimulation called the auxiliary stimulation has also become more common. The technique involves other aids like dildo, vibrator and even orgasm machine, where they can bring more intense stimulation for masturbation amongst women.
Ultimately, female masturbation can be regarded as a self- discovery for a woman to better understand the complexities of her own body when it comes to lead a healthy sexual life. It can well educate her of her own stimulating spots that can lead her to the sexual climax to get fully relieved. It can help the relationship grow stronger as she can candidly reveal her stimulating parts to her partner so that both can have proper understanding about each other regarding achieving the orgasm which is the ultimate satisfaction of any sexual desire.