admin When it comes to dishing out helpful advice that regular guys would be able to use and get decent outcomes with when it comes to dating, one of the things that I would have to say is that you really don’t want to become a follower and just do what every other guy out there does to try and impress women. Okay, so that may not really be as specific as you might have liked, but it would benefit you to remember that. You have to be aware of the reality that most guys don’t really end up in the best relationships and even if they do, it’s only after a lot of mistakes, a lot of heartbreaks and all of that can be avoided most of the time if you just choose to do the opposite of what the average guy is going to do. You really don’t want to end up being with the wrong woman, totally bored out of your mind, or with someone who is totally using you, do you?
Going against the herd is one of the better choices that you can make when it comes to dating. When you can differentiate yourself from the crowd, you are going to see that women respond to you differently right away. They are going to notice right away that you are not like most other guys and that is usually a very good thing. Being able to make a woman feel attracted to you by the way that you talk to her and the way that you make conversation is one of the best ways that you can differentiate yourself from the crowd. You don’t have to learn any crazy pick up routine or any other method that is supposed to make women salivate over you instantly. You just have to become the kind of guy that women look forward to talking to and if you can do that, you’ll have it made most of the time.
What it all comes down to is that you need to be someone that totally captivates a woman. That’s not always an easy task for you, but what that means is that you can find a way to succeed with women without having to worry too much about competition from other guys if you know how to talk to a woman so that she is totally enthralled by what you have to say to her. When you really do have that ability, you can have it made and you can guarantee that you won’t have to worry about being single for too long anymore.
Here are some tips that you can use if you want to be able to get better at making conversations with women and learn how to really captivate a woman’s attention:
1) One of the worst things that you can do is to make it seem like you only want to talk about you and not her.
If you end up making it seem like the only thing that you want to do is to talk about yourself and you are trying to come across like you are boasting – you are not going to get anywhere. The conversation has to be about her just as much as it is about you. Most women don’t want to feel like they are around a guy who is boastful and bragging about themselves and they want to at least see that you do have some genuine interest in them beyond the obvious fact that you probably like the way that she looks.
2) The more passions that you have in your life, the easier it will be to make interesting conversation with a woman.
When you don’t do much outside of the normal day to day stuff that everyone else does, then you really don’t have a lot of things to talk about. At least, not things that are really all that enthralling or captivating. On the other hand, if you DO have a lot of passions in your life, you are going to find that it is very easy to make the conversation flow when you are talking to a woman. When you can speak with passion, a lot of the passion becomes contagious and that means that she is going to feel passion when she is around you. Of course, that is going to be a very good thing for you.
3) It’s usually not a good idea to talk to a woman you have just met about any past relationships of yours.
You may feel like it is a good thing to talk about relationships in your past, but most of the time it is not going to go over as well as you think it would. For example, if you give off the impression that you are still in love with an ex girlfriend, the new woman you are talking to is probably going to figure that you are really not ready to date again. That’s not good. Also, if you talk badly about an ex girlfriend, that can actually make you seem like a bad guy, because you are making her wonder if you would end up talking about her like that if she were to date you and then break up with you.
4) You also need to be secure enough to make it clear that you are attracted to her when you are speaking with her.
This is an area that a lot of the shy guys seem to have a problem with. They have a problem with making it clear to a woman that they are attracted to her. It’s okay to let a woman know that you like her and that you might even want to date her. The thing is, you don’t want to come across as being too eager to date her. You want to make it seem like you are interested in her, but at the same time, you would definitely like to get to know her better to see if she is really the kind of woman you would like to date or be in a relationship with. Act like a guy who likes her, but has standards if you know what I mean.